Beef Stew Like My Mom Used to Make

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Beef Stew

Of loss and beef stew

There are many facets of loss you never understand until after a loved one is gone.

What I didn’t fully grasp when my mom passed away the day after Christmas was that I wasn’t just losing her, I was losing her cooking, too. Mom was known for a lot of great cooking. She made the best dinner rolls of anyone I know. Her lasagna was famous among her family and friends. She had a knack for pie crust, and made a mean spaghetti sauce. But what I will miss the most is her beef stew.

Mom made a great beef stew. She made it with tender chunks of beef, large chunks of potatoes, and a colorful mix of vegetables. The best part was the thick beef gravy that everything was swimming in. It was my favorite childhood food, and I still asked her to make it most years on my birthday.

The last time I had my mom’s beef stew was camping with my parents in October. It was a beautiful sunny weekend, but a little cold. Mom’s beef stew made a great belly warmer at dinner. I didn’t know it would be the last time I ever had it.

Many of my mom’s recipes are captured in various family cookbook compilations. I am forever grateful to my sister for the family cookbook project she spearheaded a few years back. In addition to other family favorites like Grammy’s Christmas pie and Grampa Joe’s soup, Christine preserved for posterity some of Mom’s best dishes, including her dinner rolls, lasagna, and seafood linguine. While no one will ever be able to make these dishes with Mom’s exact touch, at least we have the recipes.

We didn’t have the recipe for beef stew.

Mom made beef stew so many times that she didn’t use a recipe. No one ever asked her to write it down. I didn’t realize this error until after she was gone. I even had a dream about it one night. I asked my sister if she had the recipe and she told me to ask mom. In my dream, Mom was in the next room, and all I had to do was go ask. But I woke up before I got to her.

My dad and I, both missing Mom’s beef stew, decided to try to recreate the recipe one day. We both had watched her make it enough over the last fifty years that we pretty much knew what was in it. Dad lined up all the ingredients. We just had to figure out how she put it all together.

Like my sister suggested in my dream, all I had to do was ask.

Recreating my mom’s beef stew

Surveying my mother’s collection of recipe books, I found a tattered copy of Betty Crocker’s Cookbook, a staple in 1970s American kitchens and recognizable by its iconic “red pie” photo collage on the front cover.

Betty Crocker's Cookbook

Mom’s hardcover, 1969 first edition was so well-used that it was missing a spine and was held together by a strip of packing tape. It has been in her kitchen for as long as I could remember. It had to be the place to find the inspiration for my mom’s take on beef stew.

I was right!

On page 398, I found a recipe for “Old-Fashioned Beef Stew.” While it wasn’t quite what Mom made – she never used turnip or green pepper, for example – it seemed pretty darn close.

beef stew recipe from Betty Crocker's Cookbook

I set Dad to work chopping vegetables while I dredged the beef cubes in flour and browned them in Mom’s old soup pot. We changed up the recipe as Mom had by using peas and corn, and modified it further in ways she probably never did. (I deglazed the pan with red wine just because Dad and I had a bottle open as we cooked and, well, it seemed like a good idea.)

In the end, we were rewarded with a big pot of beef stew that was about as close to Mom’s as we could have hoped. I’m sharing our recipe here as a tribute to my mom and all the fabulous meals she cooked for her family over the years.

Thanks, Mom.


A blurry picture of my dad and me on cooking day.

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